Yep, it’s a PITA to parse and get the values you want. Much prefer JSON. Recently when I needed to parse XML I ran it through an XML to JSON library. Much easier!
If you need to parse XML just for RSS though, it isn’t so bad as there are RSS specific libraries which take most of the pain away.
!boardgames@sopuli.xyz is the one I normally use now feddit.de is down. It seems a bit dead though.
!boardgames@lemmy.world is active as per your criteria.