• Flying Squid@lemmy.worldM
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    18 days ago

    If you can’t then I suggest you get offline and see a therapist to deal with your own insecurities.

    And now you are violating our incivility rule.

    My refusing to do what you demand is not an excuse to violate rule 5.

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      18 days ago

      I literally think you might need help though. It’s not uncivil nor an insult to suggest someone go to therapy unless they mean to belittle people with mental health issues which I certainly do not. It’s not something to feel ashamed about either especially given the world we live in.

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        18 days ago

        Do you, Dr. Freud? Based on a few text-based interactions?

        Amazing. Psychiatrists take more time, but you’ve figured out the shortcut.

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          18 days ago

          I think it’s generally good practice to go see a therapist every once in awhile if you can afford it and even if you feel fine. I’m not trying to diagnose you and therapists don’t really do that either. But yes, seeing the way you’ve interacted with me and others I think is enough for me to give you that advice.

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            18 days ago

            Based on what, exactly? My refusal to concede to something you demand? You’re not that important.

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                18 days ago

                And yet your whole psychoanalysis is apparently based upon my refusal to do what you demand.

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                  18 days ago

                  I actually recommend going to someone who specializes in CBT and not psychoanalysis. That said if the latter is all that’s available to you it’s generally better than nothing.

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                    18 days ago

                    And what, specifically, are you diagnosing me with that requires CBT? Not following your orders?